I’ve got three posts planned to tell you about our DisneyWorld trip. This is the first one. And it’s really all about Disney service. The overall trip was great. Surprising the kids was fantastic. The rides were as charming as I remembered. But the service was above and beyond. Some of the outstanding moments:

1) After we arrived and checked into the lovely Fort Wilderness Cabin, we had a complication ending up with a wounded Maude (she’s fine and dandy now). Within a few minutes, the staff at Disney World had sent paramedics and located a new room for us at a nearby resort, Old Key West. David, the property manager at the Cabins helped us stay calm, introduced pin-trading to the kids to keep them entertained (more on that in the next report) and did everything he could to get our vacation back on track as quickly as possible.

2) We spent our first evening of our trip touring Epcot. When we arrived at Soarin’ near closing time, we realized Oscar and Betty were too little to ride. So I planned on waiting at the ride exit with the little ones while Ben took the big kids. To my happy surprise, the Soarin’ ticket taker gave me a rider-switch-pass, so that when Ben and the kids were done, I could go on the ride without having to wait — and the big kids could ride with me, getting a second chance to go on Soarin’. Apparently this rider switch policy is standard on any ride at Disney World. Nice, right?

Here’s where they really stepped it up though. It just so happened that by the time Ben and the kids met me at the end of their ride, it was after 9:00 and Soarin’ was closed. I assumed I had missed my chance to try it out. But the ticket taker made a point of sending me and the older kids back on the ride. Basically, they kept the ride open just so I could get a chance to try it. In fact, we (me, Ralph, Maude and Olive) had the ride completely to ourselves. Which was really, really fun.

3) A couple days into the trip, the Manager of the Old Key West resort left a message checking in to make sure Maude was okay. She was. And we were touched that someone called.

4) We used the Kids Night Out babysitting service for Oscar and Betty while we took the older kids to La Nouba. And we were very pleased. Our sitter’s name was Brandon and when we got back he said everything was “fantastic”, that our kids are super smart and that they went right to bed. (Note to all babysitters: that is exactly what every parent wants to hear when they arrive home.) If you need a sitter at Disney World, you should totally request Brandon.

5) Another thing we loved is that the hotels at Disneyworld are full-fledged resorts themselves. Meaning, even if you didn’t go to one the parks, there would be plenty of entertaining things to do right at your hotel. Our kids loved watching a nighttime showing of Ratatouille at the Old Key West pool. If we’d had more time, I’ll bet they would have loved taking one of the crafts classes that were offered. Or trying out the family-size bicycles.

Old Key West photos from About.com

Nathalie, from the Australian paper company Imprintables, sent me photos from the super-charming apple-themed party she had for her son, Travis. So cute! And I love that’s it’s totally unisex. And totally adaptable to pretty much any fruit.

Refreshments were child-sized apples, apple lemonade and of course, apple pie with ice-cream. Games were traditional — bobbing for apples, sack races and tug-of-war.

Curious about Apple Lemonade? Me too. So Nathalie graciously shared her simple recipe:

1 bottle of apple juice
1 bottle of pear juice
1 2L bottle of lemonade
Combine; watch the children and mums alike devour this tasty concoction

Sounds delish!

I voted.

Then. To commemorate the event, I called in a voice recording at The Motherhood telling all about my experience at the polls. And then I embedded the message here on Design Mom (click the triangle “play” button to hear what I said):



You can call in and record your voting experience too — right from your cell phone. Go here to try it out. And find simple instructions here. It’s so great to hear everyone’s voices.

Happy Election Day!

PS — is the patriotic pin-up girl (found here) too sexy? You know how hard I try to keep it G-rated around here. . .

Two apple pies baked before noon. From apples we picked ourselves.

It’s hard to improve on that sort of day. Did the kids ransack the house during the making/baking process? Yes. Am I still in my pajamas? You bet. Is my foot covered in powdered sugar? Oddly, yes. But I have a whole pie to eat and a whole pie to give away. So who really cares about the rest?

Also, I just tried this circle thing instead of my usual slits in the crust — I’ll stare at it for awhile longer, but I think I love it. If I was ever going to have a pie signature, I’m pretty sure this would be it.

One more thing. In case you’re wondering, while the first pie is baking, there is just enough time to make a second pie, clean the kitchen, and make fresh whipped cream — and if the kids help, you can even get the family room whipped into shape. So you might as well make two. I’m just saying.

The kids had school off yesterday. We spent the morning working on Halloween costumes and we spent the evening apple picking at Stuart’s Farm. Stuart’s Farm is exactly what I want in an apple-picking adventure. No bounce house. No hayride. No carnival. No paid parking. Just a beautiful, walkable orchard (with great apples) and a small shop where you can buy local jams and gourds and mums. We are notoriously bad about forgetting our camera when we go on outings, but we didn’t forget yesterday. So I posted a million photos of our adventure on flickr. To share with the Grandmas. And any curious blog readers.

Joanna Goddard, an excellent writer who keeps a lovely blog called A Cup of Jo, is now writing a daily relationship blog for Glamour Magazine called Smitten (great name!). One of her posts today featured this smart family portrait idea featuring the (clearly clever and talented) Pasanella Family: her profile + his profile = child’s profile. Love it!

Here’s a peek at the calendar at our house:

August 24, 2008
My parents’ 40th wedding anniversary. (Not really celebrated, because my father passed away a decade ago, but still acknowledged with a smile.)

August 25, 2008
Olive’s 7th Birthday (We’re having a family party tonight. I’ll share pics later.)
Brother-in-law Jim’s Birthday
Niece Lindsey’s 12th Birthday
Nephew Colin’s 4th Birthday
Roger’s Birthday (Roger is my mother’s wonderful husband.)
Erin McEvoy’s Birthday (Roger’s daughter)
Alan McEvoy’s Birthday (Roger’s son)

That’s a lot of birthdays. And they’re followed up by one more:

August 26, 2008
Ralph’s 11th Birthday

As you can imagine, there is a lot of wrapping, decorating, well-wish-phone-calling, shopping and baking going on at our house. But. In the midst of all those tasks and busy-ness, I want to make sure to commemorate the most exciting, coolest, most important thing that’s happening today:


Donna and Roger, with Jared, Liz & Hank

My Mom and Roger are leaving on a mission! They report to the Missionary Training Center today. And they’ll be flying to Russia on Saturday. Ykaterinburg, Russia to be exact. Where the annual temperature reaches 70 degrees at the high (brrrr!). To help me get a handle on the geography, this bit of trivia helped: the dividing line of the the European and Asian continents goes right through the city of Ykaterinburg.

I’m so proud of them for doing this challenging, adventurous and worthy thing. And I’ll miss them both. And I hope they’ll bring me home one of these.

It’s our 13th wedding anniversary today.

What luck that Ben Blair gets more charming every year. If I’d understood how fun it would be to be married to him, I would have shortened our 2 month engagement. Here’s to number thirteen — bound to be our luckiest year yet!


I know it’s blurry, but don’t you think it captures my adoration?

Look what I just found out: On page 55 of the beautiful August issue of Pregnancy and Newborn, there is an article on the best Mommy Blogs — and they called out Design Mom as one of their favorites. I’m absolutely tickled pink. In their words:

“At Design Mom, blogger/designer/art director/mother of five(!) writes about her favorite ways of obtaining child-friendly and functional design while maintaining stylish and serene style. Be inspired by her posts about handcrafted furniture, cool toys, creative art projects and more.”



And. I was in very good company — my friends at I’m Not Obsessed and Mom Finds were their celebrity gossip and fashion picks. The best part about this press: I had no idea I was even on their radar. What a nice surprise!

Unexpected flight entertainment: Maude kept busy with the camera phone shooting the gorgeous pink tinged clouds out the window. There’s something grainy and otherworldly that’s lovely about them.

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Hey. Part 2 of my Five Minutes For Mom interview is up. It’s all about my Kirtsy Partnership. And you can find more delightful FMFM interviews here — featuring lovely ladies from blogs like Scribbit, Rocks in My Dryer, and Adventures in Baby Wearing.

And here’s a behind-the-scenes shot of the interview for those who are curious about such things (like I am):

Last year, the BlogHer conference was in Chicago. I don’t know a soul in Chicago. This year, BlogHer was in San Francisco. And I have all sorts of friends and relations in San Francisco. Which is wonderful. And which means I spent about half my conference time visiting family.

On Friday afternoon, my dear Aunt Robin K, my cousin Scott and his darling girlfriend, all stopped by the St. Francis — the hotel hosting the conference. We chatted in the ballroom and ate free conference candy bars.



On Saturday, Jordan and I spent a lovely morning at Grandma Rudi’s house in Menlo Park. She is all about whatever is in the news, so basically she just wanted to check out CNN on my iphone. And talk about Obama.



From Grandma Rudi’s, we headed to Grandma Daisy’s house in San Carlos. Daisy still lives in the house where my father grew up, and I love to be there. Daisy is regal and her favorite color is purple. Happily, it was kind of a bonus visit — my super-cool uncle Mark and Aunt Robin S were also there. A great visit. Too short.

It’s fine by me if BlogHer is held in San Francisco forever more. I don’t see my California family nearly often enough.

Side note: on the way to see the Grandmas, Jordan and I swung by the Ferry Building so we could pick up some Recchiuti chocolates to give them. Mmmmmm. You should probably go get some right now (try the Fleur de Sel caramels). Plus, I kind of want to move in to the Ferry Building. It is a happy place.

I grew up as a diehard Disneyland fan. This sometimes surprises me because in my mind, the family I grew up in tended to steer slightly adrift of anything mainstream. But in reality, if we felt the mainstream event was well-done or culturally important we totally embraced it (think: the Olympics, Hands Across America, College Football Bowl Games, etc.). So we ended up at Disneyland a lot. A lot. And I only have happy memories associated with that place.

We had some definite traditions surrounding the park. We only stayed one day and we arrived before it opened. Mom took the toddlers or preschoolers on Casey Jr., which opened before the main park. And the older kids stood at the front of the line to race down Main Street — headed for Space Mountain — as soon as the park opened. Although you weren’t allowed to run till you reached the end of Main Street, so when I say “race”, I should really say “awkwardly race-walk”.

The big kids met up with Mom and Dad at the castle at 12:00 for lunch and then again at the end of the day. The rest of the time we just explored the park. When we were hot or tired we picked rides like the People Mover, that had a short line, so we could relax and cool off. We loved Disneyland. We never got sick of it.

Disneyland was also part of my design education. I remember being 7 or 8 years old and standing with my mom at Disneyland, stowing our bags in a locker at the beginning of the day. She pointed out the detail in the displays — authentic vintage suitcases and travel accessories — even in a room as functional and non-event as the locker rental room. We discussed the term “mickey mouse”, as in “the house I rent is mickey mouse, it’s all held together with duct tape”, and wondered where that term came from considering the absolute attention to detail that is so signature to Disney Parks. I remember studying everything. From the very low-tech effects in It’s a Small World where glitter is the order of the day, to the up-to-date robotic distractions prepared for riders waiting in line for Star Tours.

Disneyland was, and still is in my opinion, a perfect fit for a big family looking to entertain kids of various ages. There’s something for everyone. And they make it so easy.

A few years ago, when we took our then 3 children to DisneyWorld (my first East Coast Disney Park experience), we spent our 2 days at the Magic Kingdom (one of 4 parks that make up DisneyWorld), knowing it was sort of a Disneyland twin, and the experience was every bit a lovely as I’d remembered it growing up. Although the experience has changed since I was a kid — with child approved innovations like character breakfasts and mid-day parades. My little three loved it. So did Ben and I. And for the past 6 months we have been figuring out when we should take our now family of 7 back to Florida.

So you can imagine how delighted I was to receive an invitation to Disney’s first ever Mom Blogger Mixer, held this last weekend. I met all sorts of lovely people and did all sorts of lovely things and found out all sorts of details to help plan our trip. I’ll report on all those things tomorrow, because this post is already getting way too long. But I have to say how grateful I felt to be included. If you’re curious for more info, you can read what one of my fellow attendees, the very clever Suburban Diva, has written up about our first day.

A few years ago, as summer was approaching, I was concerned with some of the one-on-one relationships my children had with each other. I’m a mother of four and my biggest concern was that my oldest (8 going on 9 at the time) and my five-year-old had NO friendship. They often bickered and fought. So I came up with a plan based on the well-known thought “you love those you serve” and created a schedule for my children to serve each other. It worked so well we have done it every summer since.

Create a Simple Schedule for Siblings to “Serve” Each Other Through Fun Activities

This is how it works: every child is paired with every sibling every morning. The combos over the years have included activities like: -11-year-old daughter and 10-year-old-daughter write and produce a play (including script, costumes and sets). -10-year-old daughter and 5-year-old-daughter make up dances together. -5-year-old-son reads an easy reader to 7-year-old daughter. -7-year-old daughter and 5-year-old-son play jump rope, hopscotch, basketball or soccer. -5-year-old son and 4-year-old-daughter color a picture together.

As Your Kids Grow, The Activities Can Become More Advanced

As my kids have grown we have continued the tradition and the activities mature as my children do. This is what we did last summer: -13-year-old daughter and 12-year-old-daughter prepared dinner each morning (including a weekly menu and shopping list). They did all the prep work they could in the morning, together, then one of them did the actual cooking each evening. -13-year-old daughter and 10-year-old-son played board games each day. -13-year-old daughter read Alice and Wonderland and The Chronicles of Narnia to my 9-year-old-daughter. -12-year-old daughter and 10-year-old-son practiced timetable flash cards. -12-year-old daughter taught 9-year-old-daughter piano basics. -9-year-old-daughter practiced her reading with my 10-year-old son. The kids love this part of the day — and thankfully, they love each other. I will continue to do this as long as I can. I feel like this is one of the best things I’ve done for my children.  

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Credits: By Sara Urquhart, photo by Katrina Davis for Design Mom.

One of the big topics of discussion among parenting groups in my neighborhood is music lessons. What’s the best age for starting piano? Violin? Guitar? When I wanted to know, I went straight to my sister-in-law, Erin. Percussion teaching was her major in college, and she’s currently a piano teacher. (Did you know piano is considered a percussion instrument? It’s in the same family as drums!) Here’s what Erin says: As a piano teacher, the question I am most asked is: “When should my child start piano lessons?” Keep in mind that my goal for my students is that music will be an enriching part of their lives, a creative outlet, a useful skill and playing the piano may serve as a bridge to other kinds of musical education and instruction. I do not approach this from a competitive viewpoint.

Question 1: Has your child learned to read?

After a child starts to read is an excellent time for them to start playing the piano, around age 6-8. The mechanics of reading come in handy when learning to read music and it’s helpful if they can read practice instructions. By this point they are also learning how to be responsible for their own homework and gaining greater independence in completing tasks. But there isn’t necessarily a “magic” age. I have students that started to play the piano at age 10 and 12 and they progress more quickly than the younger student and have the strength and dexterity to play more complex music from the beginning. I also have students that started much younger who do beautifully partly because of the time their parents spent helping them practice:

Question 2: Do you have time to help your child practice?

The younger the child, the more time you will need to spend helping them practice. If they can’t read you will need to sit down with them everyday. If they can read you may just need to help them for a few minutes at the beginning of practice the first few days after lessons. Of course, this is also dependent on personality. My daughter started at age 5. I had more time to spend with her and once I got her started, she was able to do some practicing on her own. My son is turning 7 soon and I tried to start lessons with him. He wants me with him every time he practices, but I don’t have the time right now, so we’ll wait until he’s a little older and begin again. He also wasn’t very excited about playing the piano, which brings us to question three:

Question 3: Does your child talk about playing the piano or try to play the piano?

If they are excited about it, they are more likely to be self-motivated to practice and the better they practice, the more successful they will be and the more they will enjoy playing the piano. If you can answer “yes” to two of the above questions, consider starting piano lessons with your child. —- Thank you, Erin! I really appreciate definitive advice like that so I’m not forced to guess. What about you, Dear Readers? Have you found success starting your kids with piano lessons at a certain age? What’s your advice? P.S. — Painting a piano. And my favorite ukulele for kids.  

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Credits: Photo by Kristen Loken for Design Mom

Wondering if you should be paying your kids an allowance? Not sure what works and what doesn’t? You’re not alone. Talking to kids about money can feel complicated — especially when your own grownup finances aren’t where you wish they were. My sister Sara has 4 kids a few years older than mine and she’s come up with a financial training system that seems to be working for her family. I asked her to share the details. This is what Sara says:

Incoming funds are a chance for kids to learn budgeting.

Twice a month our Family Bank opens for business. Each child is given a generous amount of money and a sucker from the Bank (me) and then learns to budget the money. Each child takes any money earned on their own since the last Family Bank day, plus the new money received, and splits it into five categories: 10% Tithing 10% Long Term Savings (LTS) 10% Charitable Contributions 50 % Short Term Savings (STS) 20% Spending

Categories help kids learn the difference between long-term and short-term saving.

-Tithing goes directly to our Church. -LTS is set aside for some future purchase, like college or a house. -Charitable Contributions goes to something meaningful like rebuilding someone’s house or a tsunami relief fund or to the teacher at school with cancer. -STS is something more immediate: a video game, a new bike or a baseball glove. Something they want and have to save for, but can be earned in weeks or months not years. -Spending is stuff that disappears: a movie, a candy bar or a balloon. We started this plan years ago, and we have stopped paying the older kids who have started babysitting and earning money outside of the home. Happily, the budgeting seems to have stayed in place.

Use this Family Bank activity as an opportunity for all kinds of money discussions.

This has also been a good platform for other money discussions like “Good Debt vs. Bad Debt” or “how and where to use credit cards” or even “getting a higher yield on your long term savings.” Our ten-year-old just asked his dad to explain Certificates of Deposit to him and asked if that is where he should keep his LTS. Which hopefully means the conversations are working. From what I can tell, it doesn’t seem to matter much what your plan is for teaching your kids about money, as long as there is a plan. —- Thank you, Sara. I really appreciate the clear advice. I love hearing about the discussion that have come from this Family Bank system. Now it’s your turn, Dear Readers. What are your favorite methods for teaching your kids to be money-wise? P.S. — A homemade budgeting game for teens, and how to turn $100 into $1,000,000.

Question: I want to be more tactile with my kids, meaning I want to be literally more hands-on with them in the day as well as figuratively, I want them to spend more time creating with their hands and feeling the joy of a project conceived and completed. I’m ready to bump it up a notch, and you have ideas and materials that never cross my mind. Your young daughter knits? Your little boy paints onto shirts? Sign me up! I know you’re crazy busy, but if you get a chance, I’d welcome advice. — Amanda Answer: Hi Amanda. What a great question. Thanks for submitting it. Last Saturday I taught a small class about this very topic. I’m going to include my handout notes here because I think they will answer your question fairly well. Design Mom’s Tips for Doing Crafts or Art Projects with Your Kids 1) Admit to yourself it’s going to be messy. If that stresses you out, cover surfaces with newsprint or butcher paper to catch bits of paper and glitter and drops of glue. Use materials (adhesive, markers, etc.) that are washable. Then relax. If you get paint on your hands, it’s okay. If your child gets marker on her shirt, it will wash. When you’re finished, roll up the newsprint and discard the mess easily. 2) Don’t present one firm example of how the craft should turn out. Either don’t present an example at all, or present several options, so your child knows he can use his imagination. If he glues the eyes where the ears should be, good for him — think of it as an opportunity to introduce cubism (wink). Their idea is more important than how they execute it. 3) Look for crafts that are age appropriate and play to your child’s strengths. If the craft is complicated, break it into steps and figure out which ones your child can do. For a Harry Potter Celebration we made wands out of paper, hot glue and paint. My 6 year old could choose the paper, tape the rolled paper, plug in the glue gun, and paint it with craft paint. I did the hot-glueing, the rolling of the paper that required more dexterity than her little hands could muster and handled the metallic highlights we added with permanent marker. My older kids could do more. My younger kids were napping — this wasn’t a craft appropriate for 2 and under. 4) If you really enjoy crafting yourself, set aside a portion of the craft that is just for you to make. I find when I don’t do this, I hover and am tempted to control what my kids are making. If I know there are some craft materials reserved for me then it’s easier to allow the kids to do their thing. (For example, every year at Easter, I set aside a dozen eggs that are just for me to decorate.) 5) If you’re crafting on the kitchen table and the craft isn’t finished, but it’s time to use the table for dinner, it can be frustrating to clean it all up and start again later. If you don’t have a dedicated craft space, plan your craft to be done in an allotted time. 6) You don’t have to keep it forever. Crafts are often 3-D and can quickly accumulate and take up lots of space. Not everything your child makes is a masterpiece. Say goodbye to some old crafts when new crafts come into your life — before you start resenting crafts in general. Much of the value of crafts is in the making. 7) Remember Tim Gunn and “Make it Work.” It’s not worth running to the store to get the perfect paper/trim/detail. The enthusiasm for the project will evaporate if you have to break for errands. Use materials you have at home. 8) Not every child likes glue and glitter and cutting paper. Don’t force it. If you’re looking for specific ideas, following is a list of crafts my kids have done in the last year or so and loved (including links to my sources or instructions). If you’ve been reading for awhile, you’ll recognize these from earlier posts. Note: I especially love crafts that are practical. That can be used or worn or played with. If you’re looking for decorative crafts, this list won’t be helpful. Also, the ages are just meant as a loose guide — if it says 4+, it means there are lots of steps in the project that a typical 4-year-old could do. It doesn’t mean you should leave your 4-year-old alone with a glue gun and sewing machine and sharp pair of scissors while you run to the grocery store. painted shirt, age 4+ potholders, age 6+ recycled crayons, all ages artwork calendar, all ages sculpey beads, age 4+ bubblebath, age 4+ jello or kool-aid playdough, all ages romper stompers, age 4+ round loom hats & scarves, age 7/8+ bean bags, age 4+ knot a quilt*, age 6+ magic wands, age 5+ barrettes, age 4+ ipod cover, age 7/8+ garlands, age 4+ decoupage eggs, all ages *I don’t think I’ve posted on Knot-A-Quilt before but it’s a kit filled with fringed squares that your child can tie together to make a blanket. Great concept and a good quiet project — my daughter loved making it. But. The fabric it comes with is not the best. I’ve been experimenting with alternative fabrics that are better looking and higher-quality to see if we can make our own squares. I’ll let you know how it goes. . .

Oscar’s 3rd Birthday Party was Saturday. It was a hit! I have a million pictures and ideas to share. I asked Oscar what kind of party he would like. His answer involved blue cake and circles. So we decided “Round & Round” would be a good theme.This is the invitation. I sent it out via email instead of snail mail — because I had procrastinated. The decorations: Circles of course. My older kids helped me make circle garlands. We hung them all over the place. Oscar started adding circle to the door, so we went with it. Maude remembered we had a few round lanterns in our holiday storage bin so we added those too. We added colorful round confetti to the table. For the garlands we used construction paper, curly ribbon, glue sticks and two borrowed oversize hole punches (thanks laura!). We used regular hole punches to make confetti from the scraps. The garlands were easy to make and turned out wonderfully, so after the party I wrapped them up for storage on a spare piece of foam board. (These would be great for other parties as well — you could make them more sophisticated by using origami paper with subtle patterns.) Blue cupcakes with circle sprinkles. The party favors: bags of super balls in pretty marbelized colors. For activities we did “round” things. Danced to “You Spin Me Right Round, Baby Right Round”. Walked around a hula hoop while singing “The Big Black Bear” song. Sat in a circle with our feet together and rolled a ball around. Plus lots of free play so they could build with the duplos and try out the puppets in the playroom. The 3 year old birthday party is always my favorite one. It’s the first year they really get it. How to unwrap a present. What a present is. How to blow out candles (they’re not very good, but they know how to try). They have no expectations and are just delighted with the whole thing. I recommend keeping it small and short. 6 or 7 kids for an hour and a half is just about right. You can see a bazillion more pics here.

Back in September, we moved my office out of the basement. We converted a small windowed section at the back of our garage into the new office. And I mean small — about 7 feet by 10 feet. I’ve been meaning to post photos of the makeover for months, and today’s the day!

The little space is actually a small alcove. We created a 4th wall with floor to ceiling curtains, 4 panels total. There is no door. To enter the space, you pull aside a curtain. The garage isn’t heated, but with the 4th-wall-curtain and a little space heater it stays toasty on all but the coldest days.

The ribbon section came about mostly out of convenience — I’m constantly reaching for a piece of ribbon. To tie up the girls hair, or to embellish a little gift. And I hate throwing away pretty remnants. So I pinned them directly to the wall. Plus I needed a bit of color there.

The Matisse print I’ve had since college. One of my very favorites. My friend (and fabulous illustrator) Apryl Stott had it framed for a wedding gift. I love finding a space for it in our home whenever we move.

 

The floor is unfinished cement. We painted it with our leftover wallpaint, then defined the floor space and warmed it up a bit with garage-appropriate-tiles from Flor in charcoal grey.

The artwork is an original painting by a Guatemalan artist named Justicia — my in-laws picked it up on one of their many world travels.

This is a collection of stripped tins I put together ages ago with inspiration from a Martha Stewart article. Mine are full of rubberbands and stamps and business cards and all sorts of office-y things. They have been with me in every iteration of my office (home or otherwise) since 1999.

The lamp is metal and it’s my current crush. The proportions are perfect. The best thing Ikea produced this year.

The desk is tall — bar height. Actually a little taller because it’s meant to be used while standing. It’s an old library table from my alma mater. I picked it up at one of the University’s surplus sales. The little compartments are for stacks of index cards — you know, to write down the dewey decimal number when you’re searching for a book — remember card catalogs? Obsolete now as a library table, but still gorgeous, and very heavy. I love this piece.

The barstool is vintage leather and it’s so charming, even if absolutely disintegrating. (I realize I should really find a pretty and comfortable work stool with a back.) I have two of the stools and on the best days, Ben sits next to me with his laptop and we work side-by-side.

The little shelf boxes are wine crates. In the lower one, I added a piece of fabric covered homasote, and now it’s a bulletin board as well as a shelf. The higher one was too high to function as a bulletin board — so it’s just a shelf. Making and installing these was a super easy, satisfying project. And they’re shallow — perfect for knick knacks. Plus the shelves don’t hang out too far over the desk, so I don’t knock into them with my head when I’m busy exacto-knifing.

The “before” space was super rough. Weird 2x4s lined about a wall and a half. The other walls were unfinished, untaped sheetrock. Because this is a rental, we have to be judicious about how much energy and resources we put into the space, so instead of taping and finishing the walls, we just primed and painted everything so it provided a clean, fresh backdrop. We used a grey/blue shade from Sherwin Williams called something-I-can’t-remember — but I’ll look it up.

What do you think? I know it’s kind of hokey — a roughly finished garage space — but I LOVE having a space of my own. No matter how small.

You can see lots more photos (before and after) here.

 

Oscar turned 3 years old last Wednesday. He is so charming it’s all I can do not to eat him up. He says “bawindow” instead of window, as in “Let’s look out the bawindow.” He calls any body of water an “ocean of the sea,” as in “Hey, there’s the ocean of the sea!” when we come upon the Hudson River. Ben found this list of “Toddler Rules” and we think they fit Oscar perfectly. Especially these three: If it does not open, it must be screamed at. If Mommy’s hands are full, I must be carried. If it is pointed, it must be run with at top speed. We are having a Round & Round party for him this Saturday. All about circles, polka dots, wheels, and balls. With music by JT and Dead or Alive and Ratt. I’ll share details next week.