By Amy Hackworth. Vintage Brownie patches here.
It’s the beginning of June, and I’m planning plenty of fun for our boys and some great family get-aways during summer break. But, inspired by my friend Cristin, I’m also scheduling some time where we reach out to others and devote some of those lazy summer hours to service.
Last week my friend Cristin’s family kicked off their third annual “Summer of Service,” as a way to help her children understand the good they can do for others as volunteers. I’m amazed at all they accomplish in the ten weeks of summer, and inspired by what she’s teaching her family.
In the spring of 2011 Cristin and two friends were discussing ways to turn the tide of entitlement that seemed to be creeping up on their children’s attitudes. As they talked about helping their children develop empathy and understand their own daily luxuries, the idea for a “Summer of Service” was born.
On Memorial Day the three families, with 14 children among them, gather to honor the people who’ve gone before them — hard-working ancestors and devoted soldiers who’ve served their family and their country — and to plan their own weekly contributions to the world. Their goal is to fit service into plenty of summer fun, and to teach their children that just a few hours a week can make a real difference.
I love how Cristin illustrates the goals of their service with a target. She teaches her family to serve first in the center of the target — their home—and then move outward toward their neighborhood, community, state, country and world.
Throughout the summer, they do just that, exposing their kids to all types of opportunities ranging from reading to senior citizens to serving food and playing concerts at the local food coalition. They’ve helped a family in their neighborhood move, cleaned up a local park, gathered school supplies for an inner city church in another state, and collected art supplies for a humanitarian trip to Mexico. They’ve run a charity 5k and sold cookies to their neighbors to raise money for Eliza’s Library, a charity that creates children’s libraries in pediatric offices to honor a sweet little girl with a terminal illness.
“We’re trying to teach our kids where real happiness comes from,” Cristin says, “that it’s about loving and serving people, and not about what you accumulate.”
Are you as inspired as I am? Ready to embark on your own Summer of Service? A few things have made Cristin and her friends so successful:
– Put it on the calendar. The families gather on the same night each week to begin their projects, and I think this is key. With all my good intentions, I know summer service will pass us by if we don’t schedule it. (Cristin creates a special calendar just for service to help document all they accomplish during the summer.)
– Join forces with other families. I’m looking forward to harnessing the power of numbers, moral support and accountability by connecting with friends for good causes.
– Plan a variety of service, involve kids in the decision making process and include fun rewards and treats after a hard day’s work.
– Find opportunities that fit your family and start with manageable projects.
– More great tips here.
Are you noticing a sense of entitlement in your own kids? Have you seen volunteer work change your children? What are your favorite ways to volunteer with your family?
P.S. — There are a million ways to serve! Here’s a great list for community service ideas for kids. Donate a stuffed animal or run a lemonade stand for cancer or raise money to donate to Oklahoma relief or donate food while you play a vocabulary game! Visit this great Pinterest board for more ideas. Read up on the benefits of volunteering under age 14. Remember this sweet little girl who repairs stuffed animals for free? Talk about service!
19 thoughts on “Volunteering with Kids: Summer of Service”
We love the idea! In Germany, it’s not that common to do volunteer work (we’re big in donating money though….it’s not like we just don’t care)- as soon as we have kids, we definitly want to teach them the importance of volunteering as well!
Greetings from Germany,
Birdy & Bambi
What a fantastic idea! I was just talking with my husband about ways we could teach our 4 year old about service and giving back! This article is so timely — thanks!
So glad to hear it, Amy. Thanks!
Great post. I had been talking to my husband about this very thing in the last few weeks. Thanks for the tips.
I love this! Doing for others always gives me a greater sense of joy and happiness. I try to be an example to my kids in this way. I love the idea of getting them involved. They are pretty young (the oldest is 5) but I intend to look for ways for them to help others. Thanks for the inspiration.
I’m so glad you’re inspired, Martha. I think it’s that joy and happiness you describe that I’d like my kids to experience.
In Minnesota, there is a program called “Kid Pack” which works well as a kid service project. The idea is to pack brown bag meals for kids to have on the weekend. Schools provide the numbers for kids on free and reduced lunch program. The ones I have heard of match a church with a near by school. Our church received a grant for the food. Then packing nights become a great family activity as pretty little ones can put a apple sauce cup into each bag. Great teaching opportunity since often kids in the church attend the school receiving the meals. The kid next to you in class may not have enough to eat this weekend is pretty close to home. I would love ideas on how to reach these families during the summer months when Lunch is not provided at school.
Shennon, what a great project.
Great ideas. I’m inspired!
thanks for this inspiring post!
I have a friend with 4 boys ages Kinder thru Jr. High. Each summer they all volunteer 1 day a week at This Is The Place State Park here in Utah. They wear the same thing their pioneer friends would have worn and spend that day doing the same activities. She began this as a way for her boys to have an appreciation for what our forefathers endured and as a little wake up to the blessing that we now enjoy.
Air conditioning is a big one!
LOVE this post!!!
If you haven’t already, check out http://www.milkandbookies.org
Milk + Bookies is a nation-wide literacy non-profit that spends a great deal of time researching and compiling tools for parents to open the dialogue with their children about giving. It’s also SUPER easy and a lot of fun to host your own “BOOK-RAISER” and Milk + Bookies will supply you with all the materials you need and a list of worthy recipients in your zip code!
Hope you will add it to your list ;)
Three cheers for Milk & Bookies! So glad you shared the link, Meredith.
I don’t have any kids of my own yet, but I do babysit for two boys who have SERIOUS entitlement issues. I’ve been trying to think of fun summer activities for us. Thank you so much for this post, I cannot wait to dive into it with the boys!
Such a terrific resource post, Amy! I love everything about this idea. I feel like we have a strange summer coming up — with a major move and all sorts of adjustments. But I hope we can fit in some service somewhere.
I run Craft Hope and we do tons of projects for kids. Right now we are collecting decorated flip flops for children in Nicaragua that live in the dumps. Check it out!
Love this idea, Thanks so much. We’re definitely going to plan some service fun this summer!
Amy, where were you and your ideas when I had five young ones at home? Oh, wait, you were growing up also….learning to serve at a very young age, which you continue to do. I appreciate this post for myself and this summer. No matter what age, we can all do better at giving service.
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