Book: Ejaculate Responsibly

About the Book

In Ejaculate Responsibly, Gabrielle Blair offers a ground-breaking and provocative reframing of the abortion issue. In a series of 28 brief arguments, she deftly makes the case for moving the abortion debate away from controlling and legislating women’s bodies and instead directs the focus on men’s lack of accountability in preventing unwanted pregnancies.

Highly readable, accessible, funny, and unflinching, Blair builds her argument by walking readers through the basics of fertility (men are 50 times more fertile than woman), the unfair burden placed on women when it comes to preventing pregnancy (90% of the birth control market is for women), the wrongheaded stigmas around birth control for men (condoms make sex less pleasurable, vasectomies are scary and emasculating), and the counterintuitive reality that men, who are fertile 100% of the time, take little to no responsibility for preventing pregnancy.

Where to Buy it

The book is available everywhere books are sold. Here are some of the online sources where you can find it:

United States
Barnes & Noble
Bookshop — independent booksellers

Amazon Canada

United Kingdom
Amazon UK


Discussion Guide

Click here to download an excellent discussion guide for Ejaculate Responsibly. Use it with your book club, in your classroom, as part of your family discussions, or even as a personal study guide.

Media Inquiries

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For bios and images of Gabrielle Blair, please visit the About page.

Cover Image

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Photo by Gabrielle Blair
Photo by Jordan Ferney
Photo by Jordan Ferney
Photo by Ralph Blair
Photo by Ralph Blair
Photo by Ralph Blair
Photo by Laurie Smithwick
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