This is the story of a happy little home in Vancouver, where the decoration of preference is joy. I like Sandra’s house because it’s a fresh space that brings a smile with every pop of bold color and an abundance of statement pieces where you least expect them, but I love it because there’s a clear choice happening in this house. And choosing happiness in everything that surrounds you usually ends up in a life overflowing with it. Friends, I’d like you to meet Sandra. May this peek into her home bring a bit of happiness to your morning! (Related: Aren’t peonies the cheeriest flowers ever?)
Q: Tell us all about the creatives living in this home!
A: Roll call! Everyone line up! We have the man, our six year daughter who just finished first grade, and me.
I joke that my husband and I are recovering creatives because we both grew up in working class homes where it was all about having sensible, reliable, responsible paid work. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but having any life other than that was a bit suspect! We both were and are passionate about jazz music – he’s an amateur drummer and I’m an amateur pianist – and art and theater. He’s also had some photography shows, while I am still learning feverishly. It’s my new obsession!
We’ve both spent many years going back and forth between how to balance earning a living and living out our creative passions. There’s no perfect solution, though. I think it’s one of those issues where by just asking the question you end up with powerful life changes.
Q: How did this house become your home?
A: We had been living in Toronto right downtown for ten wonderful, creative, gritty, urban years when life drew us back west to Vancouver. Think a low-key Seattle; very much a part of the Pacific Northwest and, in many ways, the antithesis of the east coast life. It’s all about the outdoors and natural beauty, and is a much smaller and slower paced place.
My mother-in-law was ill, my father-in-law had recently passed away, and an opportunity came up for my husband to transfer with his paid work. The timing was perfect.
I flew out on my own for one weekend in June 2011, and had two days to buy a house. Two days in a market that was crazy with multiple offers. Our requirements were that our home should be close to a playground, within walking distance to the girl’s school, close to my mother-in-law, and close to transit. We narrowed it down to a neighborhood that was only three blocks by four blocks.
I saw this 1930s cottage, and I was sold as soon as I walked in the door. I’m embarrassed to admit that I didn’t even look at the entire house! I just knew.
We had been through two renovations before and were five days away from another one in Toronto when my husband got his job offer. Luckily, this cottage had been redone already and we only had to make some cosmetic changes. I painted the interior and put in new counter tops and appliances in the kitchen. The previous owners had a full height wine fridge that I removed and replaced with more storage. You can never have enough, right?
We also had this odd little space at the top of the stairs just outside of my daughter’s bedroom that was too small for pretty much anything. I had some bookshelves installed and put in a couple of chairs and a carpet (folded over so it fits), and it’s now a reading nook.
I had two big challenges: managing the cosmetic changes from 4,000 miles away, and downsizing from a large 1890s Victorian to a tiny 1930s cottage. We sold a lot of our furniture and bought some smaller-scale items.
Q: Your focus seems to be creating a happy, whimsy-filled home where it’s fun to live. How did you land on this approach?
A: I think – no, I KNOW – that it’s because our little family is one that was hard won! After three years of trying and many miscarriages plus two adoption attempts gone awry at the last second, I finally carried to term the lovely girl that is our six year old daughter.
Sometimes it’s the sobering events that both cause you to grow up and take things a lot less seriously. I know it’s such a cliche, but life is short and your kids are around for only a few years before they are off in the world.
We really want this to be a place where she feels both at home and well loved. We want our home to be a place of fun to relax and create and escape from the world. For all of us.
Q: How does your emphasis on creativity manifest itself in your decor? What are the boldest choices you’ve made in terms of color or design? And where do you find your best inspiration?
A: That’s an interesting question because it doesn’t manifest itself so much in crazy colors or textures, but in having only the things that I love and that are well-used in our space. We don’t have a lot of storage so if something new comes in, something else must leave.
The boldest choices are the over-sized pieces. The pendant in the dining room breaks all the rules for size and scale, but we love it so it stays. And we have some art on the way for the master bedroom and the hallway that are also quite large and dramatic, but again the commonality is that we love them.
I get the most inspiration is from overseas magazines like Real Living and Living, Etc. And I find the best treasures by simply keeping my eyes open while I am out and about, and going through consignment shops, especially when traveling. My souvenirs end up being furniture; our dining room table is something I had made while living in South Africa.
Q: Is travel something that’s important to you as a family?
A: Definitely. When the man and I met, I had already spent two years in Cape Town. He had traveled a lot, too, including his favorite cross-country road trip from Chicago to Vancouver in a convertible.
We did more “roughing it” travel before we had our daughter: hiking throughout the southwest US and overland trips in southern Africa. We also love to go to large cities like New York, visiting at least twice a year to get our fill of theater and galleries and museums. Our daughter had her first trip there when she was five months old. She is now an expert hailer of cabs!
My husband has some extra time off coming up in a few years, and we are itching to spend a few months living overseas – perhaps Italy or maybe France! Living overseas is such an enriching and creative and inspiring experience.
Q: Is there a favorite detail in your home that makes everyone smile?
A: Well, you’ll either love it or hate it and I think that’s a good thing! Your home should reflect your personality and your passions.
My daughter is very happy because her bedroom has all the features that she asked for: trees on the wall, a rainbow, and a pale blue ceiling with clouds. Her books are just outside her bedroom in the reading nook at the top of the stairs.
Probably the one thing that makes everyone smile is a laminated News of the World cover from years ago. The headline is “Jimmy Hoffa Found – In a Block of Ice”. And they bothered to create an artist’s rendering of what he would actually look like in that block of ice. Silly.
Q: Share with us your top three tips for making a house more fun.
A: First, have art supplies accessible. We have this lovely round reclaimed wooden table in our kitchen that we have never ever sat at for a meal because it is always covered with markers and paint and pens and glue and glitter and games and books.
If it’s out, it’ll be used. It makes art-making a regular part of everyone’s day.
Second, lighten up. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Be silly. Talk in funny voices. Make up stories. Act out favorite children’s books together. Play dress up.
And third, work hard to make the mornings a restful and calm time for everyone to start the day. I find that if we can start out our days well-fed and watered and rested, we can each handle anything.
Q: Describe your favorite moment of your every day; where are you in your home and what makes this your favorite time and space?
A: This is easy! My favorite part of the day is snuggling up with my daughter in her bed, reading bedtime stories before she goes to sleep. I love it because no matter what has gone on during the day, it’s all over and now is the time for connecting and sharing a wonderful story together. Sometimes she ends up going to bed a little later than I wanted because we are so engrossed in a story. The Clementine series of books by Sara Pennypacker is on deck right now.
Q: What do you hope you’re teaching your daughter with the decor and style of your home? Are there lessons on living in there?
A: I hope that I am teaching her to have what you love but don’t let anything be too precious. It’s all there to be lived with and used. Living in a small space, nothing can be roped off or left only for guests, so every square inch is lived in.
Also to know what you love, so that everything in your home – whether big or small – means something to you and gives your pleasure.
And even in a small space, have room for your passions. Figure out how you can do them regularly, whether it is music or art or photography.
Q: What’s your favorite part of living with your own child? What are the things you’ll miss when she grows up?
A: Too many to mention! Her laughter, her sense of fun, her silliness. I just like the person she is. I enjoy her personality. Seeing the world through her eyes. There are still many years of “firsts” to come. I’ll miss us being the three amigos when she is off living her own life. Getting choked up…
Q: Please finish the sentence: I wish I had known…
A: That living a creative life with a family didn’t have to be an either-or situation, and that I could successfully combine the two. On a personal level, I wish that I had taken my creative self and my passions more seriously much, much earlier.
Thank you, Sandra! For the sweet tour and for this: “I wish I had known that living a creative life with a family didn’t have to be an either-or situation.” I imagine we all get a little wrapped up in the schedules and the musts and the shoulds, that we forget to feed our fun levels!
Friends, do you ever stop in the middle of a stressful toy cleaning frenzy or a tight deadline for work or those inevitable chaotic bedtime scenes, and find yourself wishing for a reset button? How do you shift moods and change the moment for you and your family? I’d love to hear your tips!