My favorite part of this home tour is Megan‘s answer to my query “How did this house become your home?” I guarantee chills and a smile. The way life works out so often takes my breath away.
There’s some practical goodness in here, too, especially for those of you who may find yourselves on edge whenever the paints come down off the tip top shelf! Megan runs a design company that specializes in helping people set up kids’ art spaces, and she completely understands that not everyone enjoys a Jackson Pollock-esque living room at the end of a creative session. Enjoy the tour, Friends!
Q: Please introduce us to your family.
A: I live in a small cottage in Mill Valley, California with my loving husband, Aaron, our 16-year-old dog Shanti, and our two little girls, Karuna and Ora. Karuna recently turned six, but could pass for 36 by the way she nurtures her little sister Ora, who is two. Whenever I leave them with a babysitter, Ora says, “Okay, Ra-Ra will be my mommy.” Ora is a spunky little girl, completely opposite of her sister, so they make a great duo!
Aaron and I met in college at a bar. It was the day after I returned from a solo trip through Europe and the Middle East. According to him, I was emanating a traveller’s cheerful, free-spirited vibe. When I first saw him, he was sitting across the room, smiling at me like we had known each other forever. He had this look in his eye and huge dimples that drew me in. I have been smitten ever since.
Q: How did this house become your home?
A: We live in my grandmother’s old house that we rent from my father. I grew up in Oakland and would come out here often to visit, but I never thought I’d want to live here. I guess I was a city girl and couldn’t imagine settling down in the suburbs. It wasn’t until I got married and started thinking about having kids that Mill Valley suddenly became our dream destination. We begged my dad to rent this house to us – otherwise there was no way we could afford to live here – but he already had a tenant who had looked after my grandmother before she passed away, and he wasn’t about to displace her.
At this time, we were living about an hour north in Santa Rosa, and Aaron was commuting to San Francisco every day. We talked more and more about trying to find an affordable place in Marin County, not only to be closer to his work but also to his brother who lived here with his wife and two kids.
Here’s the crazy part of the story! As we were figuring all of this out, my brother-in-law’s wife tragically passed away after the birth of her third child. We packed up our things and immediately moved to Marin, sleeping on couches, to be with our family and help take care of our new baby nephew and his siblings. Three days later, my dad called and asked me, “Do you believe in serendipity?” I said, “Yes, why?” and he proceeded to tell me that after more than 15 years of living here, his tenant suddenly decided to move to Illinois. She would be moving out in a few weeks and we could finally live in my grandmother’s cottage, only ten minutes from our brother-in-law where we would be spending most of our time for the next year. I can’t help but think my late sister-in-law and maybe even my grandmother had something to do with this turn of events.
Q: What makes you love the place you live?
A: Mill Valley is incredibly unique. It’s ten minutes north of the Golden Gate Bridge, nestled at the foot of Mt. Tamalpais, with gorgeous hiking trails and redwood trees, wedged between the beautiful Bay and the Pacific Ocean. Although our little town is starting to become a suburb for the San Francisco tech workforce (with its expensive homes and boutique shops), I still feel it has held on to its old-fashioned quaintness, artsy vibe, and adventurous outdoor lifestyle.
We really lucked out with our neighborhood and the wonderful families that moved in with young kids when Karuna was little. Our kids have grown up together, and we always made it a priority to have a regular moms’ night out or Friday night pizza parties with the whole family. It really is a village when it comes to raising our kids. If Ora is napping when I need to pick up Karuna from school, I just pop my head out of the fence to look for a neighbor who is heading to school for pick up. I’ll yell across the street, “Can you get Karuna for me?” And ten minutes later, she is walking in the door.
From our house, we can walk to our elementary, middle, and high schools, to Whole Foods, to a variety of parks and creeks, to the quaint downtown for a good cup of coffee, or to see a show at the Sweetwater, which is an awesome, intimate venue backed by Bob Weir of The Grateful Dead. It really is a dreamy place!
Q: What was the one design element that you wanted to be sure your family home included as it relates to living well with your kids?
A: For me, there are a few key design elements for living with young children. The first is an open concept, which we have only been able to achieve in our kitchen and dining space. We remodeled the kitchen when I was pregnant with Karuna, but dream of redoing the rest of the house someday…a perk of being related to the landlord!
The second element is playfulness. The bright colors, hanging hammock chair, ostrich wallpaper, and chalkboard wall are all ways we bring playful design into our home. Making room for creative expression is part of this playfulness, which is why we have turned our sunroom into an art studio for the girls.
The design element that has surprisingly impacted our lives more than anything else is our attempt at minimalism. The kid stuff seems to multiply on a daily basis, and I think I would go crazy if we didn’t have a system for purging and organizing.
Every few months we go through our problem areas like drawers, closets, and toy bins, take everything out, and only put back our favorite or necessary items. I get my kids to do this before birthdays and the holidays so that they have room for all their new toys, which gets them excited about purging.
The first time I tried this, I dumped Karuna’s toy bins into a cardboard box and told her to pick out only what she wanted to keep. I was shocked when she only took out a few of her favorite little figurines and a couple random toys. I found myself saying, “Are you sure you don’t want to keep this My Little Pony? Or what about these Calico Critters?” She knew what she wanted and she was so good at letting go of everything else! Now she’s used to this system, so even though she is more attached to some of her things, she’s okay with this process. I think she would have been a lot more resistant if I had started off by saying, “Pick out what you want to give away.”
Q: What’s your favorite time of day in your home? When does it work for everyone best? How does the room decor contribute to this harmony?
A: My favorite time of day in my home is dinner. I love cooking for my family, and I’ve been trying to recruit my six-year-old to learn alongside me. But most of all, I love sitting down for dinner with everyone, expressing our gratitude and talking about our day. My kids like to hold hands before dinner and say something they are grateful for. They call this ritual family. “Let’s do family,” Ora says, as she reaches her arms out to hold our hands.
One decor item in our dining room that relates to this ritual is our gratitude/manifestation board. Inside the acrylic frame it says, “I’m so grateful for…” We use dry erase markers on the frame and write down things that we are thankful for, as well as things that we would like see to happen, and express gratitude for them as if they have already happened. I am a strong believer in manifestation! Our bedroom also has two small manifestation pin boards that my husband and I make every New Year. It’s so amazing to look at them at the end of the year to see how our hopes and dreams have manifested in our lives.
Q: You run a company called The Art Pantry. Tell us all about it!
A: The Art Pantry is a design studio and resource for kids creative spaces and art exploration. I help people set up kids’ art spaces in homes and schools, and provide tools to keep kids engaged in the creative process. My background is in early childhood art education – I taught at Reggio-inspired preschools and ran a children’s art studio – but I am also in love with design. The Art Pantry is the best of both worlds!
Q: Give us encouragement on setting up a totally free-spirited art space in our homes…even for the neat freaks among us!
A: As much as I wish we could all have a free-spirited art space in our homes, I know it’s not ideal for many families. But this doesn’t mean you can’t have a totally awesome, inspiring space. That’s why I love my work! I like the challenge of finding ways for families to have the idea of a free-spirited art space, while still making it work for their particular children and their lifestyle. This might mean limiting messier activities to the outdoors or creating a messy art bin that only comes out when everyone is willing to deal with the aftermath.
I will say that messy art gets a bad rap in terms of effort and cleanup, but it doesn’t have to be so scary. My go-to item for keeping messy art projects under control is a large, sturdy tray. My favorite one is the Ikea SMULA tray, which sells for around $1.99! It’s made of super sturdy plastic and is a translucent-whitish color that doesn’t compete with the colors of the art materials. When my girls are done with a messy project, I just throw everything on the tray, do a quick wipe-down of the table, and carry the tray over to my kitchen sink. If I have time, I will wash the tools and wipe down the tray. If I don’t have time, I just soak the tools in a cup on the tray and leave it for later.
The reason I started my art studio and my design services is because I strongly believe in teaching children at a young age how to use tools and materials to explore their world. I also believe in giving them autonomy in their creative process by making familiar supplies easily accessible. If you start kids young enough – ideally between 18 months to three years – all kids can learn how to experiment and respect the materials, learn to self-regulate, fall in love with the creative process, and gain important skills that will serve them throughout their lives. If you miss this age window, it becomes harder to get the non-artistic kids to feel comfortable and confident with these creative tools.
Q: What has been the biggest gain from working on this project? What is the most difficult part of balancing work and home? Any tips or tricks or shortcuts that save your life on a daily basis?
A: Wow, the biggest gain? I’m not sure I can boil it down to one thing. I love that I have been able to stay at home with my girls and follow my passions at the same time. I love that my daughters are watching me run a business and be creative and they get to be a huge part of that.
The most difficult part is finding a perfect balance. If I’m working a lot, I feel guilty that I’m not with the girls. If I’m with the girls a lot, I feel like I’m not getting anything done at work.
Meal planning has been important in this whole work/life balance. I used to scramble at dinnertime to figure out what to make. Then someone introduced us to The Fresh 20, a meal planning service, and it changed our lives. I don’t even use it very often anymore, but it gave me a foundation to do my own weekly meal planning. I try to plan out simple meals, shop ahead of time, and prep ingredients ahead of time. This makes our dinners easier, healthier, and so much more enjoyable.
Q: What has been your favorite part about living with your own kids? Is there a development stage that’s long gone that you miss?
A: My favorite part about living with kids is their unconditional optimism. They wake up every day with their little faces beaming with joy and excitement for life. What age does this go away? I hope not any time soon!
I love the toddler stage where the personality really comes out, but they still have the simple, snuggly qualities of a baby. I also love the newborn stage. The smell of a newborn’s head as it sleeps, curled up on your shoulder…irresistible!
Q: Please finish the sentence: I wish someone had told me…
A: …that once you introduce TV into kids’ lives, it becomes an addiction. Not for them! For me!
Of course I knew that kids could get addicted to TV, but I didn’t realize that I would get addicted to letting them watch TV. Working from home while being my children’s primary caregiver means that I rely far too much on the television. There are so many hours in the day and even if just one of them is filled with TV, the guilt sets in. Maybe one day I’ll be brave and just ban it for all of us!
Ahh, yes. I think we’ve all relied on the television a time or two…hundred! Megan, thank you so much for telling us your story.
Friends, I’m particularly taken with Megan’s manifestation and gratitude board. Do you engage in a similar practice in your own homes? I’m all in when it comes to making family goals, but Megan’s simple dry erase markers and acrylic frame makes the process so simple and attainable, doesn’t it?
P.S. – Are you interested in sharing your own home with us? Just send me a note! It’s a lot of fun…I promise! Take a peek at all the homes in my Living With Kids series here.
40 thoughts on “Living With Kids: Megan Schiller”
Love the chalk wall! Such a great idea…what a dream come true for kids :-)
Love from Italy!
This is absolute perfection!
I understand the guilt associated with allowing the kids to watch TV. It’s such an easy go to so you can get something accomplished from start to finish. It does sound like you give your children a good deal of your time and attention so I wouldn’t allow that guilt to get you too bogged down. I’m pretty sure any mother with a television has done it! I do!
I also LOVE your kids’ spaces! So beautiful!
what are the paint colors?
We painted the house about 7 years ago, so somehow I have lost all of the colors. I know they were Benjamin Moore brand. Wish I could be more helpful!
Beautiful house! Thank you for sharing. I love the tile backsplash in the kitchen. Where is it from?
Thanks so much! The kitchen tiles are from modwalls.com (from 7 years ago). I don’t think they have them anymore. They were a sea glass type on clearance. I think they were even in the bathroom tile section, but I liked them anyway :)
what a lovely space and inspiring space–and family. I love Megan’s candid honesty both in telling her story (and even sharing how they can afford to live there!) and especially regarding the big bad TV guilt. My 4 year old is having a Handy Mandy Moment right now while I type this. (Because, yes, I am SUPPOSED to be working. But Mama deserves a little escape with her tea break. Right?! haha. Compound that guilt!) I think this sort of honesty is what i love best about your site too Gabrielle. You do such a great job of demonstrating we can work to make our worlds more beautiful, while still be honest about the struggles of it all–As opposed to so many design and lifestyle blogs seem d to prancing around on the pretense that all that beautify depends on being more perfect than everyone else! Your site adds such depth & soul to the conversation. And I so appreciate it. I feel nourished every time I stop in here. Thank You for that! (Now I need to get some work done before that show is over! ;))
yes, so true
Love this and they way she lets her kids explore through art. I am always scared of the mess.
Any chance you know the maker of the doll house on the floor?
Love this series!
My dad will love this! He made it for Karuna when she was 3. He gave it to her completely white with the wood floor so that she could design the rest. She picked out the paint colors and I helped her with the “wall paper.” Then we painted it together.
How cool is that! What a special gift!
Thanks everyone for your kind words and encouragement. I really appreciate you taking the time to respond!
We have been using The Fresh 20 for about a year and a half, and it has been a game changer when it comes to dinnertime. Whenever we drive through Mill Valley, I always comment on how cute and homey it feels.
Are the floating shelves on the chalkboard wall from IKEA?
Yes, they are the 45″ black Ribba picture ledges. Not only are they great for books, but they fit small cups for chalk and other supplies perfectly.
Love the Ice Cream and Coffee Print in the eat in kitchen. Two of my favorite things! Where is it from or did you paint it?
Thanks so much. When Karuna was 2, every time we asked her what she wanted to eat, she would say, “double ice cream and a cappuccino!” I don’t know where she got it from, but it was so funny that I decided to paint it for her.
I loved this home tour & interview, Megan and Gabby. Best of all I needed that inspiration that surprises can happen at any moment. Such a breath of fresh air after waiting for some time for some changes to work themselves out. Thank you!
There is so much inspiration in this post! I now want to set up a manifestation board and make a dollhouse and cut out a wallpaper animal and do tons of art with my kids and paint a giant ice cream cone . . .
Thanks for sharing and blessings to you and your beautiful family.
What a beautiful and inspiring home and family! The Art Pantry sounds like the coolest company. I actually breathed a little sigh of relief when I read the answer regarding tv. That is one of my largest roots of guilt these days. Where did you get the hammock chair from? It is perfect!
Thanks, Katie! I got the hammock chair in Mexico a few years ago. Someone was selling it on the beach for $35 and I had to have it! I actually brought back two different types of chairs on the plane with me :)
I love the kids art area! Where are the wall organizer modules from?
Those awesome wall modules are from a company called Urbio. You can find them on Amazon or even at The Container Store. They are pretty pricey, but designed really well. The cups are held with strong magnets and you can take them down and sit them flat on a table too. http://www.myurbio.com/
Reading this makes me want to raise my kids all over again! I am keeping future grandma notes, the shelves and chalkboard wall are fantastic. Hopefully you will be continuing to design so I can gift this one day. Great job!!
I agree with you, Missy– I am always so inspired when I go on these home tours, but my children are grown now :-(. I wish I had the time, money and energy when they were younger! I love this home, and their town/neighborhood sounds lovely…
Love the garden – love everything on the walls – love the back story for getting the house. And, yes, the community does sound dreamy.
I had to chime in on the tv issue. I too relied on a tv show or video to get through a rough spot. It was the only way to grab a quick shower sometimes. I tried to keep the programming quality though. I found that if I put on the closed captioning it helped with early letter recognition and reading. We used to buy dvds that had spanish translation and this helped the kiddos pick up a bit of another language.
Great ideas, Brenda! I have one Spanish instruction video that my girls love. They actually have learned a lot of Spanish vocabulary from this 20 minute show. I had never thought about closed captioning- interesting idea!
Hi Megan. What an inspiring home. I have two young girls (age 2 1/2 and 6) who love art and I am always trying to figure ways to organize their supplies in our small home (also a suburb of SF!). Would you mind telling me where I can find the acrylic frame you used for your gratitude board? I’ve been looking for something similar for a while. Thanks!
The frame is from Aaron Brother’s framing. It’s an acrylic floating frame, so your paper or photo can float inside. I’m not sure if they still have it, but they will most likely have something similar. Thanks for your comment!
Megan, your home is lovely, playful, colorful and so inviting! Everything I imagined it would be! I love your chalk wall and art space for kids. All those containers and supplies, you must have two great little artists on hand. Beautiful home!
Lovely home and a great story to go along with it.
Thanks for your sweet comments. I appreciate it!
Beautiful home, especially the art space!
Re: TV, another way to relieve the guilt about using it is just not to feel guilty about it! Chose programming you like/tolerate, limit its usage (to whatever seems practical for your kids and your work needs), and then use it happily as one of the many tools modern parents are lucky to have in our arsenal. I spent a lot of time when my older kids were younger in the TV guilt loop, and moving past it has been very freeing.
Great tip, Sarah. Make my choice, accept it, and loose the guilt! I will definitely work on that.
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hi…where did you buy the pink easel?