Hooray for a fresh start to our Living With Kids tours! Let’s start 2014 with a home I could’ve probably photographed myself as Jessica and her family live in my neck of the woods. They’re renting in the gorgeous area of Cupertino in a Mackay-designed home, which seems to mean that the sunlight slides in so wonderfully throughout the day.
Still, for all the sunshine there’s a tiny bit of rain in the Doll family’s life. But Jessica’s attitude turns those rainy days into another reason to cozy up on the couch with her boys and recognize that there’s beauty in downpours. Great windows and an even greater outlook on life are such gifts, don’t you think? Friends, I’m happy to welcome you to the Doll house! I hope you enjoy it.
Q: Please tell us all about the lovely family who lives in the Doll house!
A: We are a family of four, residing in the San Francisco Bay Area of California. I’m a professional photographer and blogger, and my husband is a Creative Director who loves to build and fly RC helicopters.
We have two sons, Aiden and Søren. Aiden is ten and we just recently found out he is on the autistic spectrum. He’s very focused on robotics and inventions and has a heart of gold. Søren is a very strong-willed and spirited 18 month old. His favorite hobbies include playing with anything that is not a toy, and attempting to fix the TV. Don’t worry! It’s tethered to the studs! We also have a few furry friends: a Pug named Yoda, a Pomeranian named Lily, and an oversized rescue cat named Ellie.
Q: How did this house turn into your home?
A: We are just renting this house, but stumbled across it by way of a photo-less ad on Craigslist. When I came to view the place the first time I immediately started to imagine us living our life together there. The owner is a retired architect and I’m so happy that he’s left the original architectural details of the home in place. I’m a big fan of mid-century modern design and have been let down in the past when owners buy a mid-century modern home and remove things like the large windows or open beams.
Although this home was designed by John Mackay, it has multiple qualities that make it similar to the Eichler homes all over California. We’re very much in love with the inside-outside feel of it and one of our favorite pastimes is to sit and watch the rain through the windows. At night when we’re cozied up on the couch we can also watch the moon rise and make its way across the windows that face west.
The gated courtyard makes a whimsical and safe place for the kids to play. We keep a seasonal garden in the west side yard and I’ve built the kids a sandbox on that side as well. We also added a stock tank pool in the back corner for less than desirable summer days which are gladly few and far between.
Q: What makes you love where you live?
A: We live in Cupertino, California. Its reputation for having great public schools precedes itself. Three of the top five schools in California are here in Cupertino, along with Apple Computers! They are really great for our older son since he receives a lot of help through the public school system.
I love that we are centrally located, too. It takes about 45 minutes by car to get to Santa Cruz, Half Moon Bay, Oakland, and San Francisco. Our specific neighborhood is very walkable, so most of my errands are completed by walking to places nearby. We are at home here, and it makes a nice base to retreat to when we are not on the go.
Q: How do you describe your aesthetic? Do you decorate with your kids in mind?
A: I don’t feel like I have a specific style. I love mid-century modern, and being of Danish descent, I am in love with Scandinavian design. I try to blend the two in our home and prefer minimal and less cluttered looking rooms. I usually like a nice neutral and sometimes monochromatic palette, but have been known to include more bold clean prints as well.
I try to include items in our home that are meaningful to us. We all have vintage mason jars that store some of our most precious keepsakes and memories. Some corners of our home have been added out of necessity, like the play nook in our office. It is supposed to keep our toddler busy in case I need to answer an e-mail or get any sort of work done while he is awake. It doesn’t always work.
Our house isn’t large, so I don’t do a lot of decorating around the kids as much as I do try to best utilize the space for all of us. The kids don’t have a play room but I’ve got little corners and nooks around to store their toys or art supplies.
The credenza in the dining room hosts all of their art supplies, as well as party supplies, pet food, and candles. It seems like a really odd mix but it works for us in the space. Since Søren still sleeps with us, his clothes and other baby items are stored in half of the hallway closet. His crib is in our room and our older son has their room to himself for now.
When Søren is ready to sleep in a regular bed, I have been thinking about trading rooms with the boys so they can have the larger master suite. We don’t need a lot of space in our bedroom and it would give them a nice big room to play in so we could migrate some of the toys from around the rest of the house.
Q: Where do you find the best design inspiration?
A: Pinterest! Certain design blogs. I also like Apartment Therapy. It’s hard to find something that I feel like is the same as my style since I feel like my style is a blend of a few different styles. It’s easier for me to take elements from an inspirational image and try to work x and y into my home instead of x,y, and z.
Q: You’re a blogger who shares a lot of photos about your kids and daily life together (like a lot of us!). Are you ever concerned about their privacy? Where do you draw the lines?
A: I have been blogging for a very long time, since 1999! The blog that I had from 1999-2005 was much more personal and open than the one that I have now. I used to blog about my daily life in general and was young and dealt with quite a bit of negative feedback from the internet, so I’d like to think that I learned a lot in my early blogging years.
The blog that I have now was created as a way for us to share photos with our far-away families but it has evolved to include our interests as well. Since one of our favorite hobbies is travel, I’ve recently focused it on our adventures in California and beyond. Sometimes I throw in a little bit about our personal lives, but I don’t give day-to-day details and am very careful not to reveal personal information like what school my son goes to or where my husband works.
When we travel I don’t reveal where we are staying or going right at the moment, only after so others can enjoy it as well. I try to keep my blog mostly light-hearted and focused on being more editorial with my photos, instead of with words.
Q: What traditions and memories do you hope your children will carry with them from their childhood house and how you’ve set up their home?
A: I think aside from the obvious cleanliness factor, I hope that my boys always remember that minimalism in the home keeps your mind at peace.
We don’t watch television during the week and always make it a point to eat dinner every night at the table together as a family. It’s important to be able to reconnect with each other at the end of a long day. I feel like it helps to remind you what is most important in life.
Q: If you could give other families style and decor advice, what would it be?
A: Take your time and do what works for your family. Make a list for each room that helps to define what its function is and what the essentials are. Start with those and build your decor around them.
I have spent a lot of time decorating our house with setups that were inspired by something I saw on Pinterest or some quick idea that I had, and sometimes they just don’t work out in the long run. I always end up going back to what works best for our family, and considering our needs in the space.
I think our entry way has changed looks about five times since we moved in. I always get a big idea about what it’s supposed to look like and when it finally does look like my vision, it just doesn’t work out for us. I think how we have it set up right now will work best for awhile since there is space to put the stroller, coats, and shoes.
Q: What is your absolute favorite thing about living with your own kids? What surprised you most about becoming a mom?
A: The constant entertainment factor. One or both of the kids are always doing something to make us smile or laugh. It is just so infectious that you can’t help but join in.
Just the other day our 18 month old learned how to snort like a pig, and probably on the same day our older son got into this mesh tunnel while standing up and was shuffling around like a walking stick. There is never a dull moment when you have as many tiny bodies in a house as we do.
Growing up I always felt like I had a motherly instinct, and now as a professional photographer I feel it as well. I have always felt at ease around kids and often I feel like I’m the type of person who attracts them. I think it has worked out to my advantage; being confident around babies and kids is half the battle.
The stuff that I thought was going to be hard is easy, and the hard stuff is twice as hard as I thought it would be.
Q: Please finish the sentence: I wish I had known…
A: That my kids would be so different. You always hear that kids are all different, but it really takes having two of them to realize just how different they can be. It has been a real struggle to parent a child who needs lots of love and support and who isn’t very outgoing and a child who is very persistent and spirited.
I always thought that since my kids are so far apart in age that it would be a cake-walk to have two, and I can fully admit now that I was so wrong. We’re getting better at it as time goes on, but it has been a definite reality check and a learning experience for our little family.
Oh, Jessica. It’s always that way, isn’t it? This parenting job surprises me at every corner, and just when I think I have it down there’s a new stage ready to jump out and surprise me!
After brainstorming ways to make The Treehouse bedrooms work for our family, I’m always buoyed when I hear of other creative solutions! I believe you’re the second or third family to switch up the master and the kids’ rooms. Please let us know if you follow through and tell us how it’s working out.
P.S. – Are you interested in sharing your own home with us? Just send me a note! It’s a lot of fun…I promise! Take a peek at all the homes in my Living With Kids series here.
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Inspired. Going to change some things in my boys’ room right now :). Love it – beautiful home.
Love the house. As I was looking through the photos it seemed to have a lot of scandi but with just the right amount of American comfort. Thanks also for the intro to her blog – will be great to get some new ideas on Denmark from her travels. Happy new year and glad to see there will be more of your voice in 2014 here in this space!
Love the house! Where did you get the globe light? My daughter would love it in her room.
We moved out of the master bedroom and left it to our (then) two kids. Because they were both young we actually had all four of us in there – our son in a toddler bed and our daughter in a crib, plus our big bed. We “moved out” into our second bedroom when our daughter turned one and she really wanted a big bed like her brother. Her toddler bed came in and our big bed moved out. It was possibly the easiest transition we’ve ever made as a family. The children were already used to the room and sleeping in there and my husband and I were the only ones who had to adjust and arrange a new space for ourselves.
I also am a big believer in minimal clutter and clean spaces and having the children have a larger play space in their bedroom meant we didn’t have to have toys or baskets full of toys out in the shared living spaces.
I love how you take inspiration from online and design but then work it to fit your family. I do the same thing and then end up tweaking the idea and working it around what our family actually needs and how we actually live. Your house is lovely and the mid-century details make so much sense to me. A good inside-outside flow is one of my favorite features of that mid-century style.
What a beautiful home. I’m not a mother yet but I am a nanny for two babies and can totally agree that you never realize how different children can be until you’re around two all the time! Mine are both 10 months old and are literally different in every way!
Woo hoo for the South Bay! It is so, SO nice to see a realistic home in my neck of the woods– you know, the kind you drive by and never think about until you see how serene and peaceful the inside is! Also, special thanks for including a renter, who deals with all sorts of constrictions in adapting their home to their children.
Lovely home- thanks for sharing! This quote: “minimalism in the home keeps your mind at peace” resonated with me the most – so true! The older my kids get, the more I want them to understand the notion that “less can be more”. We don’t need a lot of stuff to have a great life!
Our kids (boy 7, girl 4) have shared the master bedroom for four years now. Best decision we ever made. They truly need the most space in the house anyway. Plus I think its helped them to have a close relationship. Full disclosure: they do wake each other up. So there is that…
The “master” bedroom is a mid-century phenomena. Older homes have no such thing. We live in a 90+ year old home and it made perfect sense to have our two boys share the biggest bedroom. Later, when they wanted their own rooms, we turned the biggest bedroom into the TV room, complete with a big comfy sofa that seats six. My husband and I have always used the tiniest bedroom. It is perfect for us since we only use the room at night.
What a gorgeous home. I love the clean simple lines and that it’s so uncluttered. I wish I could say the same for my own place!
In our last apartment we gave the larger bedroom to our two children. They spent most of their time playing in their room which was great as it helped keep our tiny living space a little less cluttered.
In our new apartment our kids have a slightly smaller room than my husband and I do, simply because our king size bed wouldn’t fit in it with any other furniture! And with baby number 3 on the way my husband and I will be needing the extra space in our room as the little one will be sharing with us. Our kids now have bunk beds in their room (which they didn’t in our last apartment) and this frees up a lot of floor space for playing.
Lovely home. I love the Where the Wild Things Are pillow, do you mind sharing where you found it? I also love the boys’ comforters. My boys love sharing a room, I’m not sure they would have it any other way.
Thank you so much for the feature Gabrielle. And thanks to everyone for their thoughtful comments as well.
@Amy The light was purchased from ModCloth and I also saw it at The Land of Nod, but I don’t think either of those places carry it any longer.
@Jessica Nice name! The Where the Wild Things are pillow was purchased at Urban Outfitters roughly 6 years ago. I’m not sure how or where to find it any longer. The boys duvet covers are from DwellStudio and I’m pretty sure they are still available. :)
Love this house! The Scandinavian look inspires me to get rid of more stuff! The bunk beds are the best. Where did you find it? I’m in the bay area as well and am a little nervous about bunk beds in earthquake country. This set looks pretty sturdy.
Thank you for sharing!
@Nina, Thanks! The bunk beds are from Oeuf NYC and I was hesitant as well, but these are extremely sturdy!
Thank you so much for sharing your home and thoughts.
You decor is inspiring, and I agree…’minimalism in the home keeps your mind at peace’…I have over the last month took a strong hand in editing our home.
And a virtual HUG to you…our youngest son, who is 5 years old, was diagnosed in the Autism Spectrum last year. I understand. xxo
I love this house!! Especially all the Scandinavian decor! So homey but classy. And that crib! It’s always so interesting hearing about other moms and their daily lives.
Hello Jessica – I’m a learning environment researcher and recently received an email regarding an eBook series on Interior Design for Autism. You may be interested in it. Here is the link to article about the books: http://www.dexigner.com/news/27208
And, here is the link to the actual books if you are interested in purchasing them:
I love that you’ve made a rental so definitively yours. How do you feel about your wood kitchen countertops? I thought they looked like wood from the pictures but I’m looking on my phone. My husband thinks wood counters are the best ever and I’m not so sure.
This was the perfect post for me to read because we’re in the midst of the Great Declutter of 2014! I love the home’s simplicity and the Scandinavian touches and the nooks Jessica set up for the kids. I also like all the plants!
We’ve been told our younger son is on the autism spectrum, too, although sometimes I think he’s just a really smart, introverted boy. There’s so much we don’t understand about autism, but we definitely aren’t alone.
@Angela Virtual hugs to you too! It was such a long and draining process for us, but the biggest part that I’ve come to realize and accept is that if you “took away” the Autism, they wouldn’t be the same.
@Bethany Thanks! Sometimes I feel like I’m walking a tightrope between the two genres and am afraid to go too far one way or the other. Ahh, the mini crib had such a good run for it’s size!
@Jenny There are a lot of things I feel about the “wooden” counter tops in our kitchen, and none of them are good. They are actually not real wood and are some sort of veneer over particleboard and up close they’re just a wreck, especially next to the orange cabinets and floor. I can see them paired with cabinets that are nto wood, or used only on an island. Sometimes I dream about buying this house and “fixing” everything I don’t like about it, lol. We did replace the lights in the kitchen and dining rooms (with our landlords blessing of course).
@Shannon There are so many awesome blogs and resources out there, especially online. You just have to take everything in with a grain of salt and find someone to work with you and your son who has the same feelings about it that you do.
FYI @Amy I just saw a light like the globe one on Urban Outfitters website! I was determined to find one for you. :)
I love the moon over shelf of toys. Did you do that yourself? Your home is such an inspiration!
Thanks! I did do it myself, it’s actually a chalk circle painted on the wall. There is a tutorial on my blog. :)
I adore it. All of it. Really. And I can’t wait to click on over and see more at Jessica’s blog. x
Love!!! I’m swooning over all your beautiful light fixtures. The mid century modern touches coupled with the Scandinavian pride (Dansk flag pillow, viking print, Scandinavian map) made this such a cozy space. As a fellow Scandinavian and lover of all things mid century modern, this is my kind of house. How lucky to have found a rental that embodies those things as well. Thank you for sharing and love your boys’ names :)
Oh, all the light in their house is so beautiful and refreshing. So many things Jessica said resonated with me from always going back to what works best for your family, house-wise, to her thoughts on raising two kids. Lovely words and a lovely home! Thank you!
This has me intrigued and obsessed with a stock tank pool. Any photos of that? We use stock tanks for planters, but I’d never thought of using a bigger one for a pool. Fun idea.
we moved out of the master bedroom and it’s been perfect.
but we also wanted our kids to share rooms, so it’s been the only logical solution. the space they have is convinient, esp on rainy/cold days.
and if i’m being honest: i just don’t need that much space.
Thanks again everyone.
@kimberly There are more photos on my blog, as well as some additional information about it. It doesn’t get hot here that often, so we don’t have a very permanent maintenance solution for it. We just use it like a small summer pool and smile because we know it won’t get holes in it! :)
What a beautiful serene home! I often wish I could live with so little clutter, but to be honest I love all my little knick knacks!
I applaud the idea of putting your boys in the “master” room! So many people just get stuck with a room must be xyz! Our “master” bedroom is our guest/office/library – a den really, makes perfect sense for us and my husband and I certainly don’t need so much space for just a bed and a couple of dressers!
LOVE. LOOOOVE. LLLLLLOOOOOVVEE. This house. I want to throw everything I own away except for the essentials! Im so inspired! My son & I live in 700 sq ft city apt and its sooooo annoyingly clutter b/c we have ONLY 1 closet (in his bedroom)! I want my son to remember a clean airy home too! Thank you!
This is a lovely house, you can see the love that you have put into it. Pursuing the Craigslist ad without a photo leads me to believe it was meant to be:) Would you mind sharing where the bed in your Master Bedroom is from? Are you pleased with it? I love the timeless style.
@Kelly – The bed is from West Elm, it’s the Mid-Century bed in King. I really really love it, and that whole series!
This house is so beautiful! Could you please tell me where that white cylinder night stand in the boys room is from? I have seen it before and really want one but can’t seem to find where its from. Thanks!
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@Ashley – Thanks! The nightstand is a Kartell Componibili nightstand. You should be able to order one online pretty easy. I forget which website I ordered it from, it’s been a few years.
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